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The Working Girl Must Eat

Updated: Mar 1

(by Aimee Lee Ball)

My mother pioneered the biscotti trend, although she wouldn’t have recognized that word. To her, the crispy, dunk-able, sliced and twice-baked cookies were mandelbrot, or, as my friends liked to call their care packages, Mandelbaum. And the care packages were frequent; as one recipient said: If you were my friend, Gladys dropped a love bomb on you.

I certainly recognized what my friends saw in my mother—that she was generous and charming, devoted and loyal, funny and fierce. But she was my mother, and that presented a whole set of issues that nobody else had. A mother’s voice cannot be drowned out, no matter how grownup the daughter. A mother has squatter’s rights to your soul. She was ridiculously proud of me, with the highest possible threshold of boredom or impatience when it came to my welfare, listening to minute details about my problems. She’d take the kind of bad behavior that would get a person kicked out of a friendship or a romance, and emerge with her love intact. But I was the only child of older parents, and sometimes that love felt like smothering.

Mom was a reluctant cook. When she met my father (he saw her fabulous legs while picking up a box on the floor of his brother’s grocery store and decided he’d marry them), she'd already been married and widowed but had somehow avoided learning how to feed herself, so Dad gave her a book called The Working Girl Must Eat, with the inscription: “Darling, now you will not have an excuse.” Once she had a family to feed, she figured out basic meat-and-potato meals, eventually developing an eclectic, multi-cultural repertoire that included spareribs, veal Parmesan, matzo balls (at Passover seders, our relatives would greet her with “It’s Mrs. Ball and her matzo balls”), and those mandelbrot.

She wasn't too interested in imparting kitchen wisdom, so it was really Julia Child who taught me to cook. (I gave Mastering the Art, Volumes I and II, equal attention to Austen, Dickens, or Doctorow.) Mom's recipes were filed in a small Lucite box, stuffed with magazine clippings and 3x5 index cards. But she was not a stickler for detail, and she had dreadful penmanship (which I inherited; couldn’t I have gotten the fabulous legs instead?), so the only way I could learn to make any of her specialties was to watch her in action.

At some point, she decided that baking the mandelbrot in old-fashioned metal ice cube trays suited her inclination for tidiness better than free-formed logs of dough, so we spent many weekends in flea-market searches for those artifacts. I’m less precise and tend to like humble, homemade-looking things. Either way, the cookies constitute a perfect memory of Mom: not too sweet, full of goodness, and the best kind of company for gossip over a cup of tea.

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Aimee Lee Ball is a journalist whose work is at the cleverly named www.AimeeLeeBall.com.

Mandelbrot

3 eggs

1 c. plus 1 T. sugar

3 c. all-purpose flour

1 T. baking powder

1 c. vegetable oil

1 t. vanilla extract

1 t. almond extract

1 t. cinnamon

optional: 1 c. mini-chocolate chips

Preheat oven to 350 F.

Beat eggs and 1 c. sugar together.

Mix flour and baking powder together.

Mix oil with vanilla and almond extracts.

Alternate adding the flour mixture and the oil mixture to the eggs and sugar.

Mix in the optional chocolate chips.

Either place into metal ice cube trays or form into logs approximately 10 inches long by 3 inches wide.

Bake for 30 minutes.

Cool approximately 10 minutes, then slice about 3/4 inch thick with serrated knife and return to oven for 10 - 15 minutes until crisp.

Mix remaining 1 T. sugar with cinnamon and sprinkle on cookies.